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Okkie is like dropping a green orange on a hyperactive giraffe visiting an over concerned lagomorph.

I like to read, write, reminisce, listen to good music, and live. I write for myself, so my sincere apologies if you find nothing entertaining or enlightening. After all, you are not me, but I mean that in the nicest possible way :D

I'm an ENFJ.
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More, you say? Well don't mind if I do:

Hi, I'm Grace. I hate my name, and wish I had something pretty or unique, but until I can come up with one, we're all going to have to deal with "Grace".

I am usually surrounded by friends, but I enjoy my own company quite regularly and am skilled in the art of entertaining myself. I often enjoy dropping off the face of the Earth for days at a time (as I frequently feel a need to escape and run away). However, I do love my friends and family (though often times I hear I don't show it). Personally, I believe I don't always have to express my feelings, since I'd be there at the drop of a hat if you needed me; no questions asked. As for people in general; I don't judge. Hell, it's your life to live. However, I admit that I can be impatient with people sometimes, but am quick to apologize and see when I am in the wrong. I don't hold grudges and frankly, never stay angry for long.

My attention span has dwindled to a state of nonexistence over the years, and I believe living in New York has only exacerbated my A.D.D. Therefore, transitions no longer occur in my daily thoughts. I say what I think, and exactly what I think. I'm told I'm funny, personable, and entertaining to be around (as to why, I'm stumped.) It's easy to catch me in a lie, so I no longer bother whipping any up.

I'm quite the chatterbox once you get to know me. Though I admit, the things I chat away about are pretty superficial (ie: nothing too deep or emo). I mostly scratch at the surface, but do enjoy friendly banter about religion, theology, and current events. (Though I am not as educated or cultured as I'd like to be. I'm open to being enlightened, so enlighten me!)

I like to converse about life in general, and don't enjoy being pressed too hard about my own life or past. I open up at my own pace, and some find out about my entire history in a day. Others may take months or years... it's just how I roll. Nothing personal, I swear. I'm pretty indifferent about such things. I love being around witty people and take most things in life lightly. I try to always have a smile on my face and look at things from a more humorous point of view. That in mind, I will make fun of you. In the most loving way possible, I will tease. Sorry.
If it's any consolation, since I dish it out, so I also take it pretty well.

Everything I do or say, there's no real motive. I do what I wish and speak my mind with no underlying objective, so please, never take anything personally. I like everyone, and one has to try pretty damn hard for me to dislike them. Pretty. Damn. Hard.

However, I am a lot more rational then what others often deem "healthy" and will sometimes make decisions based purely on fact rather than taking others' feelings, and especially my own, into consideration. My fault is that I often see this as "tough love" and that they'll understand my objectives later on in life, though it may hurt now. It is something I've recently discovered about myself and am slowly trying to fix it.

I like to pretend that I don't care and nothing fazes me but the silliest thing can drive me to tears. I hate injustice and love chivalry. I believe daily kindnesses make the world go 'round, and that others should do things just for the sake of doing them. I believe everyone deserves a second, third, fourth, and fifth chance, if not more.

I am one of the laziest people you meet, but always the first willing to take initiative (in a social sense more than anything else, really). I love to lounge and listen to music. One of my favorite past times is walking around for hours with no where to go. It's my way of soaking up life and creating the memories that I love to dote on later.

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